topic:KINDNESS
Speaker: Pastor Daniel
[Col 3:12]
-clothe yarself spiritual and physically when euu wake up in the morn
WHAT IS KINDNESS???
-Kindness is LOVE in action
-practical expression of love..is euu act it out de..nort sae it out de..nort emotionally..
WHY SHOULD WE BE KIND??
1.cause God is KIND to us
2.cause we want peep to be kind to us
[matt 7:12]
[proverbs 21:2]
[proverbs 11:7]
WHY KINDNESS IS RISKY???
a.peep will misunderstand yar kindness
b.peep will take advantage of you/abuse your kindness
5 INGREDIENTS TO BE KIND
1.SENSITIVE to others
*in term of needs of other
*sensing others need
[phi 2:4]
[2 sam9:8]-kindness will even treat yar enemy de children with sympathy
2.SUPPORTIVE
*watch wat euu say to others and oways be supportive in yar speech
*dun respone negatively to yar parents even when tey do to euu..but oways HONOUR them
[proverbs 15:4]-built one another wid words..ENCOURAGE each other...
[proverbs 10:32]
*correct peep firmly..BUT!!kindly and with Love..
*speak kindly even if circumstances retaliate
3.SYMPATHETIC
*feel wat they feel
*kindness is a mark of spiritual leadership
[2 tim 2:24]
4.STRAIGHTFORWARD
*love come wid correction
*peep correct euu cox tey love euu..nort don care bout euu...
*gotta be upfront,frank,true..
*love mus b tough..canort oways limbet limbet
[proverbs 27:6]
+`^BECAUSE I LOVE U, I WILL NOT LET U GET AWAY WID IT
5.SPONTANOUS
[Gal 6:10]
*when euu have the chance thn jux do it..
*if euu feel liek it..jux do it...
QUESTIONS TO ASK YARSELF
i)when you correct someone, are euu correcting cause euu are committed to the person best interest?if not, DONT do it..!!
ii)are you goin to stick with him until he change?
iii)are euu caring enuff to correct?